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When things go wrong the pessimist tends to blame himself." I'm not good at this." " I always fail." he would say. But the optimist looks for loopholes. Negative or positive, it was a self-fulfilling prophecy. If people feel hopeless they don't bother to acquire the skills they need to succeed. A sense of control is the litmus test for success. The optimist feels in control of his own life. If things are going badly, he acts quickly, looking for solutions, forming a new plan of action, and reaching out for advice. The pessimist feels like fate's plaything and moves slowly. He doesn't seek advice, since he assumes nothing can be done.
当出了问题后,悲观主义者往往自我责备. 他会说:"我不擅长做这种事.""我总是失败." 但是乐观主义者则寻找疏漏之处. 不管是消极还是积极的想法,都是一种本身会得以实现的预言. 如果人们感觉毫无希望,那么他们就不会花费力气去获得成功所需要的技能。 有无掌控感是成功的试金石.乐观主义者感觉到能够掌控自己的命运. 如果事出不利,他立即作出反应,寻求解决办法,制定新的行动计划,而且主动去请教他人. 悲观主义者则感觉到自己只能任凭命运摆布, 行动起来拖拖拉拉. 既然认为无计可施,他便不去寻求他人的意见.